One exception is WikiHow, which has a very thorough if academic lesson in slow dancing.
If you keep some tips for when the tempo and lights go down in mind, slow dancing will be something to be anticipated, not dreaded.
One of the pressures of slow dancing is knowing how to be engaging.
Men and women alike enjoy the natural cadence in the dance of romance that may begin with flowers, a candlelit dinner, slow dancing to something smooth and jazzy followed by an evening of cuddling, kissing and more.
Play some sort of music in the background, then enjoy some dessert, wine and slow dancing for the evening.