A person couldn't grow when they were living up to the expectations of others.
They are industrious and abstemious in their lives, and when living up to the standard of their faith they present one of the nearest approaches to the realization of the Christian ideal which have ever been attained.
In fact, virtual togetherness has many variations, not all of them living up to the value-laden name of community.
Just hold onto your receipt until you make sure the product is consistently living up to the standards the directions inspire.
But she's not living up to her academic expectations right now... hers or yours, is she?