It has been rocky and I am thinking that it may be nearing the end because so much has happened that I am getting to the point to where I can't remember why I fell in love with him.
With the hyperstimulation and multiple stresses of everyday life, actually getting to the point of being able to really focus on your partner and the act of lovemaking can be difficult.
Finally he was getting to the point.
For example, a child who fears dogs may first be asked to look at pictures of dogs, then perhaps play with a stuffed dog or view a dog from afar, ultimately getting to the point when she is able to pet and play with dogs.