Anyway, my point was that women are expected to do all the things I'm doing on this job.
You do all the work we do, and then cook.
Sworn assurances you or your people will not pursue our identity in any way and you'll do all in your power to protect our anonymity.
This aunt I never met... or maybe I did but don't know it... she thinks I'm like practically a priest and she wants me to do all this stuff at the memorial service, for our side of the family!